FIVE THINGS ABOUT ME.
So today, I wanted to write a blog post and couldn't decide on the topic to blog about. I spent hours going over in my head bubbling with ideas and couldn't place my finger on what I should write about especially since its being a while i wrote something on here. Sometimes a writer's mind is overflowed with ideas that it difficult to decide on whats bloggable and what not. Sitting behind my laptop for over an hour and trashing about seven topics, i finally settled on sharing a piece of myself on here, listed below are five things about me , written with love.
1.ONLINE SHOPPING ADDICT.
Anyone who knows me really well will easily notice my love for online shopping. Due to my indecisive nature, I can't decide on a particular dress I want when i go to the mall to buy clothes but with the online shops, i get to know how an item looks on a model than it being on a mannequin in a mall. Online shopping has it pros and cons obviously, but I do enjoy the act of looking forward to a parcel coming through with delivery guy and checking constantly with tracking to see where my package has gotten to at a given day. It's like christmas for me when i tear open the packages. As much as i like online shopping i have been exposed to the negative sides of it. From not getting my package when i once shopped on fashionnova. The package never came through even though i was given a tracking number. The customer service was poor and when i couldn't bear with the fact that my money was just gone i reported to paypal to retrieve my money back but after months i finally gave up and knew i lost my money forever. Then I vowed never to shop there again. My new favourite where i have been shopping which delivers in like five days for international shipping is prettylittlething. Though their deliveries are fast and i really have nothing negative to say about them, i have my displeasure of getting an oversized t-shirt i ordered in medium but it turned out to be extra-large, and a pant which was too light i cant wear outside except with a longer top. But yet i still do love online shopping and especially this new shop and will shop every chance i get especially when i have a balance in my paypal account to spare.
I am like an all time introvert. I like being indoors, enjoy my own company and doing things without having to think about being distracted. i don't know how and when i became an introvert since i remember growing up, i was more of an extrovert, and a person who was all out there. Sometimes i think it basically because of my mum who disapproved the kind of friends i hanged out with growing up and spent all my time home indoors after that. i think it kind of grew on me where i enjoy the introvert part of me. Well it has it troubles, like loneliness and constant depression. recently i am working on that part of myself to meeting people and getting to know them. Though it kind of hard to keep up with the friendship i make as sincerely i have forgotten how to be friends with other people as i have grown to be friends with myself. But surely i hope i make friends who will know me for me and stick around as well as teaching mehow friendship are meant to be.
3. KAROAKE MUSIC.
How I love music even though I have the most horrible of voice i have ever met. i am pretty sharp at learning songs but the voice, man, it so bad that when i record myself on my phone whilst i sing, i ask myself who sang that? but what can i do, i love singing and i will sing to myself even in the voice i hate hearing on replay.
4. OPEN MINDED
Most people who I have met and have really gotten to know me well often pass comment on how open-minded I am. well i will take it as a compliment as i know that about myself. I accept people for who they are and what they stand for, not judging them on their beliefs or whatever they deem right. in all i will say its more of a tolerance nature i have. I never make people feel like what they stand for or what they do is wrong, i rather brace them and cause them to open up and somehow along i find a way to contribute about and experience and get to learn from them. well that speaks for my open-mindedness .
5. ALPHA FEMALE TRAITS.
Recently have noticed this alpha female traits about me. the zeal to lead, and not be suppressed kind of stuff. people feel I am more outspoken when I open up and make sure my view gets across without being ignored and most particularly not suppressed. Some people find me intimidating when i stand for what i believe in especially in a situation. but some find my confidence charming. maybe if am able to suppress my introvert nature, i could be unstoppable….well, just saying.